I am a single mother of two I need money to help catch up my bills and to rent an apartment for my children and me I am currently unemployed
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in response to Anonymous40784... I hate to say it but I think that they have seen enough people on welfare or heard about them that they figure having children is their safety net if the man does leave, or they don't feel like working. I only mean some of them but I think that the number is growing.Pop ut a couple of kids and they don't have to work for 18 years or so.
How have you been?
Alot of females in this generation will not listen to warnings of danger down the road.
So, I guess they will just have to suffer the consequence.
I guess the only thing we can do is to just keep warning young ladies of the dangers.
Thank you for helping me to understand.
High Ladies, I'll give my point of veiw of why the woman keeps having babies even though she has no job, etc.
Now, this is my own personal opinion so if you get mad, get mad at me, I'm only speaking for myself. I think that women think that if they keep pushing out kids that the man is more likely to stayand it's giving him what he wants. The idea of keeping the family together for the kids sake. I think that is why a lot of women get pregnant in their first year. If I give him a kid he'll stay with me, I gave him a child, and of course he's getting what he wants.. Believe it or not, I have pondered that same question and that's the only reasoning that I could figure. In the olden days it was more for a large family and they didn't have birth control. They don't have that excuse now day's.
Yet, there is so many birth control available.
We as women still have to use our brains.
I can understand ONE error in judgement, but what about women to go on to have many kids with no husband?
Better yet, how can we get these women to 'think' before having kids.
Do you have any suggestions how we can help these women 'before' they make kids?
in response to NikkiK... Hi NikkiK,
I have to agree with you. We are responsible for our actions.
I don't understand either: why so many women will have kids out- of-wedlock, when know that they have NO job, NO skill, NO education & NO way to take care of their kids.
I just don't understand that mentality.
Maybe, someone can explain it to me.
While you're at it, please explain to me "why some people get mad when other people don't help them with their kids. They get upset, scream & say terrible things to other people.
I mean, did other people help them "make that child"?
Why do they want another woman to spend her hard monies on them. Especially, when that woman had to work hard to get a skill & work hard, long hours. That woman would have like to stay home with her kids too. But, she had to work. So, why would anyone think that she would desire to give her monies so some other woman can stay home with her kids.
I'm not being rude, I just don't understand this mind set.
Note: I'm not talking about those who were married & found themselves divorced or widowed. I'm not referring to those who planned well or those who became a victim of circumstances, disabled,etc.