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High Ladies, I'll give my point of veiw of why the woman keeps having babies even though she has no job, etc.
Now, this is my own personal opinion so if you get mad, get mad at me, I'm only speaking for myself. I think that women think that if they keep pushing out kids that the man is more likely to stayand it's giving him what he wants. The idea of keeping the family together for the kids sake. I think that is why a lot of women get pregnant in their first year. If I give him a kid he'll stay with me, I gave him a child, and of course he's getting what he wants.. Believe it or not, I have pondered that same question and that's the only reasoning that I could figure. In the olden days it was more for a large family and they didn't have birth control. They don't have that excuse now day's.

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 in response to Anonymous40784...   There low self esteem. 3 kind words in a row and they lay down. I dont get it but I also dont get why the man doesnt use birth control either. Both are responsible. Why are men not using a condem for more reasons then birth control. Both are responsible but its the women left holding the bag.
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 in response to lyds...   You won't go to jail for unpaid debt.
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 in response to bleu232...   I can certainly understand being in love.
Yet, there is so many birth control available.
We as women still have to use our brains.
I can understand ONE error in judgement, but what about women to go on to have many kids with no husband?
Better yet, how can we get these women to 'think' before having kids.
Do you have any suggestions how we can help these women 'before' they make kids?
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 in response to Anonymous40784...   No you are talking about a women that had a child out of wedlock? What must she have been thinking? She probably believed the man that was on top of her that said he loved her and would be there no matter what.
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 in response to NikkiK...   Nikki...Hello come in. Sorry if you took offense? Who wouldnt? Let me ask you if you know how a women concieves? Women make children they cannot afford and live off the ex's paycheck. What is wrong with this picture? Man and women must have sexual intercourse to then have a child. Any man or women worth there salt will see to it that the children are raised no matter what. Please tell me you are not one of those men that sit in the bar complaining about paying for child support.
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 in response to NikkiK...   Hi NikkiK,

I have to agree with you. We are responsible for our actions.
I don't understand either: why so many women will have kids out- of-wedlock, when know that they have NO job, NO skill, NO education & NO way to take care of their kids.
I just don't understand that mentality.
Maybe, someone can explain it to me.
While you're at it, please explain to me "why some people get mad when other people don't help them with their kids. They get upset, scream & say terrible things to other people.
I mean, did other people help them "make that child"?
Why do they want another woman to spend her hard monies on them. Especially, when that woman had to work hard to get a skill & work hard, long hours. That woman would have like to stay home with her kids too. But, she had to work. So, why would anyone think that she would desire to give her monies so some other woman can stay home with her kids.

I'm not being rude, I just don't understand this mind set.

Note: I'm not talking about those who were married & found themselves divorced or widowed. I'm not referring to those who planned well or those who became a victim of circumstances, disabled,etc.

Please explain.............

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I am the only bread winner in the family Iam 25 years of age. I look after my parents and the welfare of my family. My wage cannot not afford to meet all my bills and i need to pay them if not they will take me to jail for unpaid bills I have only one week to come woth something. please help
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 in response to Pattacane...   You must be much more intellegent than I .... AZ? Really?
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I am sorry if you took offense to that, I was being very serious. I think that it is great advice. This is what a large amount of women do, make children that they cannot even afford to raise, live off of welfare, live of off ex husbands paycheck, and do nothing to take action for their own responsibilities. There are many ways to get your self some independence, but first you need to wake up and realize what got yourself to the place you are in now. Make a change. Take a stand.
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 in response to NikkiK...   GOT to school? Maybe you should get that stick out your az and get back to school yourself
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 in response to NikkiK...   That was not very nice. Please dont make rude comments ,it hurts the moral of people
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 in response to lucke...   Then get a job, got to school, pay off your debts and quit making babies for a paycheck.
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I have been on my feet since I was 16 years old and recently lost my job at Christmas. Im about to lose my vehicle because I cannot make payments on it, and also have credit card debt from a previous marriage. I wished I knew what to do! It is so hard and I would give my last dollar to someone else that needed it more than me but when im in need of something there isnt anyone there for me..
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I'm a happy go lucky girl who would like 3k to pay off the debt my ex accrued....... what a plonker i am!
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I dont know what I am going to do..I am suffering from ptsd Adhd anxiety depression and a list of nerve damge thats way to long i have no income no job no car no home to call ours we live in with the inlaws and as a family of 3 in one small room...I cant find work and cant get to work if I did find work..I have hada valid license for 28 years with no accidents nor tickets always had insurance but because I couldnt pay the p[rieum it lapse for 1 day and wont you kow it that I was hit from behind and then pushed into the car in front of me with damage to it..and to top it off the car behind me flead the scene it all happen so fast that I really didnt know what happen..but saw it was a grayish colored honda and thats I am being sued I owe the irs 4k the unemployment office says I owe the 6k and my license is suspended...
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I am the mother of 2 and I lost my job last year, after 16 yrs and now I am facing foreclosure on my house and now my credit is messed up, and I can't get qualified for nothing. I have used up all my saving on bills and keeping food on the table for myself and my children. It is sooo hard trying to make end meet. I am still looking for work, but haven't had any luck at all, I am really in trouble, Please I need help!!!!!

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I am in a little bit of financial trouble. I do not have good enough credit to get a loan because of how much I had to take out for student loans. I just recently got behind on my car payment because my mom is sick and I had to take care of her, I am in need of $650.00 to take care of what I could not while I was not working. I am working now so I am willing to fully pay it back including interest if someone could PLEASE help me. Thank you.
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